I joined SL last year, not because I wanted to, but because the course I was taking had to meet there a few times. I was a tentative visitor. I wasn’t quite sure what to make of this virtual world, so I spent time there wandering around, usually never finding a lot of people. I explored different places, danced a little, and absolutely loved the flying. I was shy about starting up conversations. I still didn’t know why I was there, but I kept returning. I just wanted to observe. Well, all that changed last evening…

Some enchanted evening
Like the Rodgers & Hammerstein song, “You may see a stranger, Across a crowded room, And somehow you know, You know even then, That somewhere you’ll see her, Again and again…Who can explain it? Who can tell you why?…”
I can only guess why so many people flock to SL to spend hours and hours of leisure time. I can, however, tell you about what drives the people I met last night to return to a game of their own making.
One of my favorite places in SL is Beckman Island and Austen Hall – both Harvard University properties. I default to this sector because it was my first experience with SL after leaving the security of Help Island. On many subsequent returns, I usually find people here, although more seem to visit Beckman; so, that’s the site I set out to interview some SLers to find out “what is the attraction?”
What I didn’t recognize until last evening was that Beckman (232, 211, 24) is a sandbox – a place to build and experiment. Although I had seen several creations (I recently got imprisoned in a circular cage), I never quite understood what was going on here.

As soon as I teleported here, I walked over to Saiasunshine and Jamesto introduce myself, and a very friendly conversation ensued. Here’s what I learned about them:
Sais (that’s what we called her) took a class which got her interested in SL. That was a year and a half ago. Since then she has several stores where she sells shoes, boots and cowboy hats for men & women. She has 24K (not sure if it’s RL of SL $) of inventory. In RL she is an executive who has to dress up, but inSL can wear her favorite western clothes. She builds motorcycles with her mate who doesn’t like to part with his classic Harleys. She does a lot of work in SL and told me that “the more you meet folks and learn to build, you will enjoy it more.”
James was very polite, but didn’t say too much. He was preoccupied with his boots and buying a cowboy hat. He did tell me that he visits SL every day. He also gave me the name of the ranch where I could get a demo stallion. (I was just loving this!)

Zick Zack Kungfu from Germany said he comes to SL often since he joined six months ago. He was there for scripting and modeling. I offered to give him the url of the cter SL tutorials I watched for class, but he told me “he needed more time, not help.” Okay, I thought, let’s move on.
Ravendrake Toshihiko said she was “tinkering”. She was building a katana (Japanese longsword) and sword belt. She already had one crafted but was “making an empty sheath on the belt for when I’ve got the sword drawn.” She was also“working on making sword attack gestures to script the katana,” but only had two days of scripting.
I asked her if she would sell it. Raven replied, “I wouldn’t mind selling it but I doubt anyone would buy. I’d probably give away copies if anyone wanted it.” She was really nice, but busy, so time to see if I could talk to other busy designers.
Cryptology Hax told me he was working on a “particle” system. Not sure what he was going for, but it made a lot of thick, black smoke that covered a wide area of the sandbox. I had to fly up to see anything. For a minute, I thought I couldn’t breathe. (The lines [SL - RL] are starting to blur for me.) He too, was busy but took a moment to tell me he “made the variables a little too thick. Particles = scripting were his last words to me.
I ran into Zick again. This time he wanted to talk. “There’s no chance to be a pro in SL,” he said. “That’s the fantastic fact here – a simple script language and a simple 3D builder. Everyone can DIY what he will do.”
Since he was being friendly, I asked if he wanted to help build a chair. He told me, “I can’t work together. It’s like cooking for me – the chef or nothing.” Since I like to eat, I thought we would have made a great team. Maybe next time.

The most interesting person I got to know was James. He returned, on his black stallion Prince, and we had a long conversation. (I couldn’t believe when I checked it later that it lasted 25 minutes!) He said “he comes back every day because it’s fun and addictive. He can do some things here that are fulfillment of lifelong dreams – like flying.”
He feels that “one can do lots of creative things here not possible in RL like dancing, exploring scenic places, meeting people who are deep into a new lifestyle here.”
When I told him that this is not real, he said that“dancing here is not meant to replace dancing in RL. Dancing is really a context for meeting people and talking while enjoying music and costumes. It is mostly a beautiful context for chatting with a wide variety of people from many countries.”
He concluded with “The conversations really occur; the truthfulness is never known.” Just like so many other things about SL, you’ll never know…but you can’t help coming back, again and again, to find out why. Happy SL travels, and thanks to everyone I met!